6:13 AM 08/05/2019
Jaffna Tamil Marriage Brokers are very popular with the expat Tamil community to arrange marriages for their children. They can find suitable Bride and Grooms in Colombo, Jaffna or in foreign countries, of course for a fee. 20 years back Srilanka Tamil marriages were arranged by the community elders. Today most of the Hindu Tamils don't marry between relatives because of scientific reasons of genetically spreading diseases. Up to 1970's normally they married within their relatives, and most of the times a brother's children used to marry his sister's children. It's prohibited to marry brother's children to another brother's children; likewise sister's children can't marry sister's children. So it's tradition to people, even the young ones to expect that a Tamil man's son is going to marry father's sister's daughter.
The relationship between the Tamil boys 'Machchan" and the Tamil girl "machchal" are great one in the Tamil culture. For the Tamil family, uncle’s daughter is machchal and son is "Machchan". In those days when someone works in a dangerous profession then used to take his "machchan" to assist him. Because all Tamils believe the 'Machchan" is the active person to respond to his call for assistance for his life, when assistance needed. Mostly when going for deep sea Pearl diving jobs or deep water well cleaning likewise jobs. Now the tradition is demising as every family have one or two children.
The way of marriage arrangements had changed a lot in the recent times, with the introduction of Jaffna Marriage brokers. Years back boy's family used to approach the girl's family Barber and Laundry man to ask about the girl's character and about their family. They wanted to see how the girl’s mother behaved at water collecting points, so they can be confident the girl behavior will also look alike her mother. If they feel the girl is good then they arranged the girl and the boy to see each other at a common place like a temple, to see each other. If both of them liked each other, they proceeded with the wedding talks. Now as most of the Tamils are living far away countries, they use news paper classified as Virakesari, Thinakkural, Uthayan, Valampuri and Jaffna Tamil matrimony websites like www.subamangalam.com and professional Marriage brokers. For Jaffna tamil vellalar marriges Kalyanamalai is popular. Also there are Tamil marriage brokers in UK too are much looked by Sri Lanka Tamil parents living in the Europe and their service fees are very high when compared to Colombo fee.
But one thing, the Tamils didn't change one of their traditions yet, yes - you can tell 1000 lies to make a marriage proposal to end in a success of marriage. So, some Jaffna Tamil Brokers too are following this. Large number of people is searching for Tamil Brides and Grooms who are with Sevvai Thosam. As Sevvai Tosam person is considered as a marriage partner for Sevvai Tosam affected person.
Most of the Jaffna Tamil marriage brokers in Srilanka do charge a fee to register with them the profile of the boy or girl. And if they can arrange a successful partner they may ask from SL Rs 50,000/- to SL Rs 100,000/-. Some marriage brokers ask higher rate for foreign registrants and for foreign bride/groom successful marriage. Some of them even ask for higher broker fees for to arrange a foreign partner.
The sad thing is, most of the brokers only register and keep the details with them. Most of them don't try to match profiles that are available with them. They used to request the registered parents to check for the boy or girl with matching star. If they find any they have to take the charts to a marriage analyzer and to see whether the charts are matching. If so the broker will inform to the other parents. If they like they will come and meet the proposed parents will talk further more. If the marriage is success tha broker will collect his service fee.
There are lots of marriage brokers available in UK, France, Germany, Italy, Norway, Denmark and other European countries.
Likewise there are lot of Marriage Brokers are working in Canada to make marriage between Canadian Tamil Young men and Tamil Brides.
Most of them advertise in the European Tamil Newspapers and Canadian Tamil Newspapers along with Tamil TV Channels. These foreign Marriage Brokers not only have European Tamil Brides and Tamil grooms details, they have Sri Lanka born Brides and Groom details too.
We can't recommend any Tamil marriage brokers to you. There is a good one being operated in the Vivekananda Road, Wellawatte, Colombo 6. Try their service, if you want. Most customers visit there on Sunday mornings. Check it out.
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