TAMIL MATRIMONY, JAFFNA TRADITIONAL WEDDINGS.
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In Tamil Marriage starting point will be to discuss the possibilities of getting married of their children to the proper bride or bridegroom will be started by the parents involved. They will not talk it about directly first. They will send messengers of their own like relations or friends of the both parties to find out the possibilities. Some time brokers also take this part depending on the situation. Once both parties agree to meet to discuss the marriage in the open, they will instruct all their neighbors, friends and relations to take part in the discussion so as to make it public and also for the agreement to be made with sufficient witnesses on the terms and conditions agreed upon. This get together and the agreement normally takes place in the prospective bride grooms house. Both parties will declare their individual positions, status, wishes, expectations, and come to an agreement including the assets.
Again they all will meet and fix a date suitable for all concerned and according to the astrology and the time concerned to fix the special ornament on the bride's neck. Astrology plays a big part in these arrangements. Once everything agreed and a date and time fixed all the arrangements for the wedding will be started. Another important function of melting the gold for the special ornament will be fixed in advance just before the agreed wedding date. This too will take place at the Bride groom's place. Bride groom must be present at this occasion so that the bride's party can meet him personally. Gold smith will be in charge of this occasion and he will be directing the ceremonies. He will melt the gold provided in front of all to show that there is no fraud and everyone attending the occasion will be allowed to inspect same. Another set of arrangements like sprouting grains and legumes in a pot for the wedding. Planting a tree and preparing edible snacks for the visitors to the wedding ceremony. On the arranged day of the wedding the bride's party will proceed to the Bride groom's place and bath him and decorate him, after that a turban will be placed on his head ceremoniously so as to indicate him as a king. He will be taken in a procession to the place where the matrimonial will be held. In the mean time bride too will be bathed and decorated and taken to the venue.
